Oh, there's nothing wrong with a little bit of playful badness in relationships. Teasing each other with inside jokes, a little bit of friendly competition, or even exploring new realms of intimacy—all those little things that help keep the fire burning. One way that some couples are "training" each other—if you will—is by adding vibrating panties into their play. If you're wondering how this works and if it's something worth taking up, let's delve into the world of vibrating panties and see just how they can spice things up.
The Concept Behind Vibrating Panties
Of course, vibrating panties are just panties with a vibrator built. These are no normal lingerie pieces at all but have been designed to bring discreet pleasure right where one wants it. Most vibrating panties will include a remote control where one partner might get to control the vibrations while the other is experiencing them. Now, the excitement lies in the anticipation and surprise—for example, when worn out in public or during activities that would otherwise be conducted without any kind of sexual stimulation.
Imagine this: You are having dinner with your partner when you feel a sudden, unexpected vibration during your dessert. You try to act cool, but the mischievous smile on your partner's face tells it all—that they are having fun with that remote. It's a game where your partner controls the pleasure and you're trying to keep things in control. But it's not just about the physical sensations; it's the mental game that makes it so exciting.
How Couples Are Using Vibrating Panties
Now, let's see some real-life scenarios where vibrating panties have been put to the test.
1. The Commute to Work: One lady revealed that her partner would turn the vibrations on sometimes during their commute to work in the morning. The idea was pretty much straightforward: just see if she could get to work without blowing her top. Though she kept a poker face most times, of course, there were a few close moments—perhaps when the vibrations hit just right at the most inopportune moments—the type of times, say, when she was chatting with a colleague.
2. The Dinner Date: Another couple added the thrum of vibrating panties to a dinner date. The remote was concealed within her partner's pocket, and with a finger tap, the evening changed from romantic to erotic in just an instant. She wrote that the anticipation of when the next vibration would hit was almost as pleasurable as the sensation. It took what would have been just another night out and made it very memorable.
3. Game Night: Even a game night can get very interesting with vibrating panties. Just imagine the scene of playing a board game with friends, and only you and your partner know the secret game that is being played under the table. One woman shared how one night every time she lost a round, her partner increased the intensity. By the end of the night, the game wasn't about winning or losing but who could hold out the longest.
Pros and Cons
Pros:
Adds Excitement: You cannot deny that vibrating panties add a level of excitement to whatever it is you are doing. The element of surprise keeps both partners on their toes.
Boosts Intimacy: Allowing one partner to have control over the other's pleasure creates an enhanced sense of trust and closeness. It makes a person vulnerable and gives in to the desires of their partner.
Versatility: Vibrating panties need not be used only for bedroom plays. They can be worn while doing a lot of other activities, too, making them versatile and interesting.
Cons:
Discomfort: Not everyone is comfortable wearing vibrating panties for too long. They do tend to shift around from time to time, depending on the design, and can be more of a nuisance than a source of pleasure.
Over-stimulation: The constant stimulation is too much to handle for some people especially if used over too long a period. What started as fun can quickly turn into discomfort.
Social Risks: If used in public, as it quite possibly could be, there is always the risk of causing a scene. While some couples enjoy this thrill, it's not for everyone.
Is It Worth Trying?
So are vibrating panties something worth working into a relationship? Well, that would depend on the dynamic of the couple. If you are the kind of couple who enjoys experimentation and playful teasing, then vibrating panties really can help raise the stakes. Not a one-size-fits-all solution, but for those ready to leap, they provide a new and interesting way to "train" your partner in the art of pleasure.
Well, if you're feeling a little bit inquisitive and adventurous, why not begin with a good pair from Sexy Devil? Always remember that, just as with everything else, it's all about communication and consent—ensuring that both of you are comfortable and ready for it. Who knows? You might just find a new favourite way of keeping things hot.