First feeling attraction to BDSM is the most intimidating, yet exciting moment in one's life. Whether you're just entering the scene or looking to update your collection of play toys with new tools, the basics of bondage gear are a must if you want to ensure fun, safety, and comfort for you and your partner. Such tools raise the level of excitement during the play but also provide safety and comfort for both partners, letting them flow freely in the dynamics of dominance and submission.
1. Blindfolds: heightening the senses
The blindfold is a straightforward yet powerful tool in the world of BDSM. This removal of sight gives a better perception of all the other senses, so each touch feels more sincere, every sound is acute, and every smell is more pronounced. Not knowing what happens next—the unknown—can be vastly exciting and combines the rush of excitement with a hint of fear.
Anything that can wrap around the head, covering the eyes, will do for a blindfold—scarves, ties, or just a swatch of cloth. If you want to get serious, however, an actual blindfold designed specifically for this sort of play is quite worth the investment. Sexy Devil specialty adult store has myriad styles—from soft satin to padded leather—all designed to bring ultimate comfort and mystery to your session.
2. Handcuffs: The Symbol of Submission
Handcuffs have come to be an iconic tool in the BDSM world; they connote control on the part of one and surrender on the part of the other. They are used to bind the wrists of the sub, tie up a person's movements, and render them in a more helpless condition. This is a very physical way to show dominance and build trust.
Nowadays, one can get handcuffs in a lot of varied materials, like stainless steel, leather, and soft fabrics. Some even have padding to prevent chafing or bruising during extended sessions. While primarily used on the wrists, handcuffs can be attached to chains or other restraints to further confine movement. Of course, with the metal ones, always keep that key handy to avoid any unwelcome trips to the fire department!
3. Ankle Cuffs: Further Restraint
Next to the handcuffs, there are cuffs for the ankles, which are also an important part of a BDSM kit. Commonly made from leather, metal, or synthetic materials, they are designed to be locked around the ankles, thereby binding a person and greatly hindering their ease of movement. Some come with attached chains to add another dimension of bondage.
The ankle cuffs, in particular, would be good in the sense that they can help to immobilize the submissive partner and allow the dominant complete control over their movements. Again, comfort is most important just as in handcuffs, so take a look at cuffs with padding or lining for no discomfort during the lengthier sessions of play.
4. Rope: Versatility and Creativity in Bondage
Probably among the most versatile equipment in BDSM, the rope will introduce countless opportunities for restraint and control. Unlike handcuffs, ropes give much room for creativity in terms of bondage. Starting from very simple ties to intricate Shibari techniques, it will provide limitless possibilities. Whether you want to bind wrists and ankles or make a full-body harness, rope gives you flexibility and variety.
Start with the easiest and proceed to the more difficult bonds. Rope bondage is a beautiful, artistic form of knowledge and does take practice to do it safely. Only use soft and smooth, bonded-designed rope so that no one gets burned or cut. Never leave your partner unattended while he/she is tied up.
5. Gags: Silence and Submission
Another classic tool in BDSM is a gag, sometimes also called a ball gag, which helps add some elements of control and submission to play. Gags are placed inside the mouth of the submissive partner. In the main, they prevent talking or, often, making noise. Gags may heighten feelings of vulnerability and helplessness.
Ball gags also come in different styles and sizes, ranging from the most basic designs that keep the mouth open or closed to the very simple ball gags. But do not forget the need for safety: Since he won't be able to speak, you need to have a non-verbal safety signal set in place so that you can just stop right there and then.
6. Whips: The Ultimate Tool of the Experienced Player
Whips are kind of the staple in BDSM. Lots of movies and media depict it as this one tool of dominance. They're used to create sharp, stinging blows that can range from light to very intense depending on what type of whip one uses and how it's applied.
There are tons of whips—short, long, single-tail, multi-tail—all sorts to produce a wide variety of sensations. Whips take an incredible amount of skill and practice to use safely since they may result in serious injury if handled wrong. The experienced dominants will know how to strike with precision onto places that are filled with plenty of muscles and avoid sensitive or bony parts of the body.
Sexy Devil will make sure to offer you a large variety of bondage gear for any player, from a simple beginner to the most experienced. Go through our collection and find the right tools to drive your BDSM play to the limit with your partner. Communication, consent, and safety are always three essential things for a fulfilling and pleasant experience.